100th post! =)
Sunday, November 4, 2007
ok.. after so long, my blog finally reached it's first 100th post.. haha.. I'm very glad that you guys are still willing to read my blog even after i made it a private one.. As for Ellen, thanks for your concern, i'm fine.. I just feel that i needa open up more and should not hide my feelings anymore.. I had been bottling up my feelings and thoughts for a very long time, making me a very bitter person, sad and depressed.. Ok, i wanna make it clear, i did not made it a private one so i can say something bad about some ppl's shortcoming.. No, it wasn't my intention.. My reasons are clearly declared with the previous blog, and strictly for those reasons only..
So in my future posts, i will be very honest and frank in my words.. so, i hope you guys won't be offended or feel otherwise.. It's just some of my thoughts and feelings, so i'll be very true to you guys about it.. =) ok, here's one of my thoughts these days..
I had been thinking about the power of our words.. Something that we have taken for granted which contains great powers, a power that builds or breaks a person.. It very important that everyone need to reflect and start to think about the words we use when we are talking to the people around us.. There are two types or categories in words, first is, Positive type the other one is the negative type.. So we need to examine ourselves which type of words are we using, this is very important, because the words you use in life is the the tool people use to judge your personalities.. so if you are those who keeps using negative words this means that you are a very negative person.. So if you want to be a more positive person, start inputing positive thinkings and start being positive in your words.. Making it more practical, dun say you can't do it, nor tell someone they can't do it.. But start saying I can do it, and tell others around you that they can do it.. The most important to do is to start believing in yourself, most of the time why a person is negative is because they have no faith in themselves..
I always suffered in a "atmosphere of negativity", most of time it's not even I who created it.. Why it happened is because of the people around me.. The words they inputed into my life, the words of negativity.. This is the reason why i said that there is great influence or power in words we use.. The words they used kind of break me.. they destroyed my faith, hopes and dreams.. They made me think i'm a failure, good for nothing.. So the friends that you hang around you will determine your destiny or future, because of the power of their words.. They will either build you up, or breaks you..
To end off, choose carefully the words you use.. And then choose carefully the friends you hang around with.. This will make a difference in your life, and you will become a more positive person when you start using positive words, or hang around positive friends.. Try it, and experience yourself the results of it..
"the power of the tongues contain life and death"
Journey through this phase of my life @ |{4:02 PM|
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The guy
About Me
- Kef aka Jia Jun aka JJ
- 20 yrs old
- 10/03/89
- 3rd year RP student, Dip in Sports and Leisure Management
Likes
FAVES...
Chill out with friends
Spending quality time with myself
Reading self-help books
Enjoy music
Fashion
Desires?
Wishing List..
A for FYP
RU's biz to grow
Iphone
Mac Book
Good Camera
More Clothings
More friends
Girl of my heart =P
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[[ W368 & W447 ]]
[x]CG Blog
[x]Jason Jiang
[x]Ying hua
[x]Li Xian
[x]Hui Xian
[x]Yi Qin
[x]Jeryee
[x]Yuen Leng
[[ Secondary Buddies ]]
[x]Chin Yang
[x]Chin Seng
[x]Shi Yun
[x]Ellen
[x]Nigel
[x]Yu Xuan
[x]Jia Qi
[x]Joen
[[ RP dudes and Babes ]]
[x]Jessica
Music
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Beautiful Memories
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