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I'll just live my life, and you live yours..

Friday, November 2, 2007


ok.. this will be the continued part from my previous post.. But now, a change in context.. i'm going to talk abt my life.. if you dun want to read, dun read.. if you wanna read, dun give unnecessary comments.. i will tell you why later.. =)

Alright, as i had said in my previous post.. I am who i am.. So, i dunit anyone to tell me who i am.. And also, i won't tell you who you are... You have your own life and i have mine.. So, dun even try to make me think otherwise.. i seriously had enough from those who like to be negative and goes around trying to pull ppl into their pool of negativity.. Black sheeps of the crowd i would name them as! i seriously dun mind offending ppl with this post, it's my freedom of speech here.. it's my personal space, where i express my thoughts and feelings.. So, if you want to comment, go somewhere else.. I'm not naming names, i'm just being objective.. I had accepted you guys as a person, a wonderful creation of God.. But i will never accept the bad attitudes and wrong mentality in your lives. I'm not against you as a person, but the things you do in your life! Not happy? I thank God that Microsoft had invented a very useful tool, which is on the top right side of the explorer, the X sign.. click that, and close the website.. And you can spare yourself this agony of reading something you dun want to.! I'm very open, feel free to do so, i won't mind.. but rather i'm more happy with that too.. thanks for your co-operation.. =)

Ok.. i had changed.. Changed a lot, i no longer keep things in my heart.. I say things openly and publicly.. Since i got nothing to hide, i had no wrongs in doing so either.. i feel that communication is a very important thing, you need to express what's in your heart.. if not, that feeling of bottling everything is unbearable.. I knew that kind of feelings, it's terrible.. You guys maybe offended when reading my post, somehow it's inevitable.. i'm not perfect neither are you guys too.. i get offended too! But however, everything i had posted had a meaning.. If you dun get it, you just dun get it.. Only true friends will understand, if you dun.. You aren't my true friends, and i had never treated you as one either. I'm very frank, it better i let you hate me for telling the truth, than you love me for the lies i told you.. Which is better, it's up to you to think about it!

For my life in the past, people had great influences over my thinkings or my beliefs.. That's why i had lead a defeated life and a life of agony.. People shape my thinkings, and i believe what they told me, telling me who i am.. A failure, useless chap, a good for nothing.. But these months, i had finally came out of this endless pit of defeat and began to walk in victory.. My life had been soaring high, i had many breakthroughs and had more control over my life.. All thanks to the change of my mindsets! i had changed from thinking negatively to thinking positively.. From thinking of failure to thinking of success.. indeed, when i changed my thinkings.. My life began to take flight! i walked in success, being happier, being more satisfied with my life.. I had thus becoming more and more influential and making differences in the lives of other people i'm leading.. I'm successful, confident, happy, joyful, full of faith, filled with visions and dreams.. i lead a fulfilling life, a life with with purposes.. No one, can ever stop me from fulfilling my dreams and visions.. Only except God.. i trust in God for everything in my life, and because of that faith, i had became who i am.. If i can do it, so can you.. But the question is, are you willing to change your thinkings today?

Friends.. it's time to for you guys to think for yourself.. Who you wanna be in life, what's your purpose? why are you so unhappy, and leading a unsatisfied life.. If you wanna live as a nobody for life, then good for you.. if you want to continue this agony lifestyle, keep on going.. If you want to be a fool until the time you lie down in your coffins, then so be it.. It's your life, you make the decisions.. I just can't stand aside and watch you guys continuing in this path of failure and defeat.. I had promised to go thru thicks and thins with you guys, if you dun appreciated, so be it, i will still be there always.. however, if you take my words seriously.. You are on your way to success.. Believe me or not.. it's up to you.. I had done my part, i had shared what i had known, i have no regrets.. It doesn't hurt to try it out, it takes nothing but self-discipline and faith.. It's free, i had no gains no whatever.. If you do it, it's a benefit to you not me.. So it's really up to you to think about it..

"What i have, i freely give"


Journey through this phase of my life @ |{10:35 PM|
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The guy

About Me

  • Kef aka Jia Jun aka JJ
  • 20 yrs old
  • 10/03/89
  • 3rd year RP student, Dip in Sports and Leisure Management



Likes

FAVES...
Chill out with friends
Spending quality time with myself
Reading self-help books
Enjoy music
Fashion


Desires?

Wishing List..
A for FYP
RU's biz to grow
Iphone
Mac Book
Good Camera
More Clothings
More friends
Girl of my heart =P




Tagboard



Friends

[[ W368 & W447 ]]

[x]CG Blog
[x]Jason Jiang
[x]Ying hua
[x]Li Xian
[x]Hui Xian
[x]Yi Qin
[x]Jeryee
[x]Yuen Leng


[[ Secondary Buddies ]]

[x]Chin Yang
[x]Chin Seng
[x]Shi Yun
[x]Ellen
[x]Nigel
[x]Yu Xuan
[x]Jia Qi
[x]Joen


[[ RP dudes and Babes ]]

[x]Jessica




Music



Reflection



Beautiful Memories



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